As you learn the distinctions of narcissism, an emerging goal can be for you to become more committed to the better alternatives. Psychotherapist Dr. Les Carter explains the difference between a selfish manner of life versus conscientiousness.
Dr. Les Carter is a best selling author and therapist who lives in Dallas, Tx. Over the past 39 years, he has conducted many workshops and over 60,000 counseling sessions.
Books by Dr. Carter: https://www.amazon.com/Anger-Trap-Yourself-Frustrations-Sabotage/dp/0787968803/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1534952299&sr=1-1&keywords=The+Anger+Trap
Laura Charanza’s book: https://www.amazon.com/Ugly-Love-Survivors-Story-Narcissistic-ebook/dp/B07FZ6NPKW/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1533043537&sr=8-1&keywords=9781543933888
Dr. Carter’s online video workshops on narcissism, anger management, and overcoming infidelity: http://drlescarter.com/video-workshops/